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I WILL BE IN A DIFFERENT COUNTRY TOMORROW.

sinvraal AND I WILL BE IN THE SAME COUNTRY.

ACTUALLY IN THE SAME ROOM.

CAN YOU TELL I’M EXCITED.

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Beauty was your armor. Fragile stuff, all show. But what’s inside you? That’s steel. It’s brave and unbreakable. And it doesn’t need fixing.
Leigh Bardugo, Ruin and Rising (via aryasnow)

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Kitty pile on Swaps. 

…this kind of thing usually ends in disaster. Tonight I was spared. 

(see my pretty toes in the background??)

Kitty pile on Swaps.

…this kind of thing usually ends in disaster. Tonight I was spared.

(see my pretty toes in the background??)

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Tumblr, I hope you don’t mind if I just take a minute to say thank you. 

Continue reading…

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TWO MORE SLEEPS UNTIL sinvraal!

[Sin, your name SHOULD BE in all caps. Because I’m shouting it. But tumblr won’t let me.]

And in completely unrelated news, I suck at being a girl. I cashed in a spa day gift certificate that included a manicure, which I NEVER EVER get done because I don’t give a rats ass about my nails, and sure enough I smudged at least three of them in the 8 seconds it took to walk out of the building and back to my car. Whoops. 

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WHOA someone found my N7 Day post again. 

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Where are you working now

Asked by Anonymous

I am not working. :) 

Left my job of 9 years last Monday, and will start looking for something temporary next week after I get back from seeing the illustrious sinvraal. A few months from now when I know where the hell I’m going to be, I’ll hunt down something more permanent. 

Being in flux is weird. Block by block I’m disassembling my life and creating a new one, and I only have vague notions of what that new one might be. It’s both exhilarating and rather terrifying. Change is one hell of a thing. You don’t change until the pain of staying the same outweighs the pain of changing, and even then a lot of the time you wonder what the hell you’re doing. Because staying the same, even when it hurts, is still familiar. With change you’re charging into the unknown, and you have no idea what’s waiting. 

Guess I’ll find out. 

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We don’t have to take rejection as a reflection of our self-worth. If somebody who is important (or even unimportant) to you rejects you or your choices, you are still real, and you are still worth every bit as much as you would be if you had not been rejected…don’t forfeit your self-esteem to another’s disapproval or rejection of who you are or what you have done. Even if the most important person in the world rejects you, you are still real, and you are still okay.
Melody Beattie, “Codependent No More”

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